Of all the challenges couples face when healing from infidelity, few are as fought over — or as quietly avoided — as this one: How do we start having sex again? When couples come to me in the ...
Sometimes relationships can be confusing, frustrating, or even drive us crazy. The Sex, Love, & Couples Therapy podcast will help you understand what’s happening in your relationship, and help you and ...
Here’s something that might surprise you: you only have six emotions. I know — that sounds completely wrong. You’re probably thinking, “I have way more than six emotions.” But it turns out that you ...
After an affair comes out, the questions start. And they don’t stop. Who was it? How long? Did you love them? You blew up their sense of reality, answering the questions, over and over again, is how ...
Infidelity is one of the most devastating things that can happen in a relationship. The betrayal is profound, the pain is real, and the path forward is genuinely hard. But I’ve also worked with many ...
After the affair comes out — whether you disclose it, or they discover it, — something predictable happens next. The questions start. And they don’t stop. Who was it? How long did it go on? Where did ...
It’s one of the most agonizing questions there is: should I tell my partner I cheated, or keep it buried and hope it never comes out? There’s no script that makes this easy. Disclosing an affair is ...
It’s been six months since the affair came out. Things have been hard, but you’ve both been working at it. There’s been real progress — more honest conversations, less distance, days that actually ...
There's no easy way to do this. Disclosing an affair to your partner is going to be painful — for them, for you, for your family. But there's a significant difference between handling this in a way ...
Here’s something I hear constantly from the unfaithful partner: “I’ve said I’m sorry a hundred times. Nothing I say makes any difference. If anything, it sometimes makes things worse.” And from the ...
You got the promotion. You hit the goal. You did the thing you’ve been working toward for months — maybe years. And for a moment, it felt great. Then it faded. And you were right back to that familiar ...
The world tells us that retirement should be your ultimate happy place. But, for many people, retirement is a significant source of distress. The solution lies in finding meaning, not just filling ...